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surface very well) but your body receives signals from her body (emotions
are contagious) and the signal that she is attracted moves from your body
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to your brain. At this point you should trust your emotions and instincts, but
instead your overused logical brain starts to rationalize and doubt the signal.
Then you start asking yourself, Should I kiss her? etc&
This, Should I kiss her? didn t come from nowhere. It was triggered by
something. It was triggered by her attraction to you and your body picked
that up. That s one of biggest differences between guys who get laid and
guys who don t get laid. One guy thinks and rationalizes while another guy
ACTS and does something about it.
To make it simple: When you start thinking about whether you should kiss
her or not, that means YOU SHOULD do it at exactly that moment. This all
starts with making yourself very relaxed in every situation so that you are
open to receive these subtle signals and respond genuinely from your uncon-
scious instincts instead of your logical mind.
Handling Other Guys
hen you start approaching girls and getting results, you will see that a
Wlot of guys get jealous because of it. Some will try to block you from
your goal. In 90% of cases, they will just try to annoy you. It s nothing
personal. They will interrupt your conversation or do something stupid. It s
funny, because they know they can t get the girl themselves but when they
see somebody else is getting her, they get jealous and try to ruin it. They
can t handle that somebody else is taking her.
In a small percentage of situations, the guy is actually her boyfriend. In
that situation, you have option to continue with him there or to eject. It s up
to you. In both cases you can win. Stealing the girl when her boyfriend is
there can be tough so it s best left for advanced guys who have developed
their skills.
In general though, there are three powerful strategies to get rid of these los-
ers.
The first option is you can completely ignore him like he doesn t exist. This
works best when the girl doesn t know him. If you ignore him, she will also.
The guy will have to start talking over you and get very aggressive. The
more he does that, the worse he looks. Unless he is a total asshole or very
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drunk, he will feel very awkward by being ignored and be forced to leave.
The idea here is to ignore him like he s a worthless gnat, not like he s a threat
that you re trying to block out. You can even glance at him, but it should be
a quick size up from a point of superiority and then more ignoring to let him
know he is not even worth acknowledgement.
She will never ignore somebody she knows, though. In that situation you
can use open-ended questions, which works beautifully.
For example: You are talking with a girl and guy comes and starts talking
with her and ignores you. Basically, you lost her attention and you need to
get it back somehow.
Ask the guy an open-ended question, like, Hey, man, what s you name? or,
How do you guys know each other?
What happens is as soon he answers the question I am back in control. They
usually answer because he must look friendly in front of the girl. In order to
answer my question, he is forced to stop his conversational thread with her.
Then there is a pause after he answers me where I can steer things where
I want to. I can respond to his answer and jump into a conversation with
both of them, where I continue to steer it in a direction I want it to go and
convey the traits I would like, or I can subtly say, Cool, and simply switch
back to conversation with the girl, basically ignoring him. This works like a
charm. He usually will leave because he lost his original thread and is being
ignored.
The third thing that I love to use is the girlfriend destroyer.
After this, there is no help for him. I use this when I know the guy is hitting
on the girl I am talking to.
When a guy starts interrupting you, just ask him, Where s your girlfriend?
or, Do you have a girlfriend? I like to use, Where is your girlfriend? be-
cause it presupposes that he has one. And it looks like I am totally friendly
towards him. At least that s how it looks&
There is no good answer to it. Whatever he says, I win. If he says that he
has a girlfriend in front of her, he will lose his chances. If he says that he
doesn t have a girlfriend, I usually hug the girl and say, He s not bad look-
ing, is he? He should have a girlfriend for sure. I don t see why you don t
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have one.
If he says that he has a girlfriend, just ask him where she is. Probably she
is at home while he s out hitting on girls. He is unfaithful, which will further
destroy all his chances. Mostly, guys become speechless. It s excellent be-
cause you didn t do anything harsh towards him and he feels stupid.
No matter what I do, as you can see, I always control the conversation. I
am the one who is asking questions, controlling threads and I am above him.
Just because he is answering my questions mean s he s under my control.
If I ignore him, I decide who is higher status. Whatever you do, just make
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